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aha i normally dont openly socialise with people as i am really shy... but once i get to know someone my shyness goes out of the window ;)
yet i remember a time wen a lonely/lovely girl asked me if she can sit with Me&myMate on the same table. i Smile and said, Ofc u can.... then there was me n my mate being silly with each other so she asked. is it ok if i cum nd sit here with u guys "u guys are so much fun" nd no 1 really knws me here... am like u knw wat' that wont be a problem, u can join our gang from today... :D
so she told us that no1 wants to be friends with her and that she's new in town..... Couple of daiis/weeks went pass. The next thing you know the Other end of the gurls wer being really friendly with her... with the same old lonely gurl who wasnt lonely anymore yet ppl wanted to socialise with her so they can come close to us..... Wat a dumb ass bitc***
sos for the bad language but funny how ppl use one to get close to another. Luckily it didnt work with them.
I have this think if anyone gets bullied or something i go and get into fights with them.. i just cant stand ppl bullying others. luckily i havent been bullied cus of the whole popularity thing as my entire generation has been to the same school nd so... but yet i wont stand their watching kids/girls get bullied.
To me is if anyone is lonely i wil go nd approach dem to see if their ok.. Weird but thats how i am... my Aunt thinks its a bad habit... well is it??
i wont blame my aunty, cus i remember this drunken women was lying on the street, wen called the ambulance she blamed me for puting her on that state wen really all i did was call an ambulance for her... Well wat can i say there was CCTV camera so the drunken women got done instead of me... Nd the officers were ever so lovely to me... wen i really fell like sayin STOP FLIRTING DUDE GET BACK TO WORK!!
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I will apologise in advance incase I read your lovely paragraphs wrong but a girl used you to become more popular - I call that taking advtange of kindness people will always abuse sweetness and thats why you need to be very neatural with this as life goes on you will learn and I am sure you will adapt.
As for bullying I am sure everyone goes through it at one stage it only makes you stronger again and teaches you new things to remove that fear etc
have a lovely evening and its nice to see you in the YabYab community once again
Perfectionist thank you for your opinion... but I so knew that was coming but really, she didnt know who was popular or anything at that time. but saw me talking to others nicely. thats awl i must tell you.. nd she is a very good friend of mines... nd she had me in tears once by stating that.. i will never forget you for who you are... as you have embraced me openly wen others sort of rejected me... Funny but theres a part of me that lives in her and a part of her that lives in me. Were more of sisters. So theres no way we would use eachother.
That's lovely of you. I'm the same. I would approach someone who looked lonely/the newbie in class and i hate bullies too. Thankfully i haven't really been bullied myself but i've seen others get bullied. I can't help but stand up for them
*come.
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I usually dont approach people as I feel like I'm invading their personal space :$ so I just wait for them to approach me.
It's good that you approach people, I don't have the confidence or I might just do it :s
let em cum
guys should approach girls.
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