Do you think its right letting the guy pay for everything when out on a date?

18 ANSWERS

1. 

   Sediment

   i personally pay for most things when im out

   Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 12:31 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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   Perfectionist

   Good evening,
   
   I would say this is a 2 way thing you should be for it sometimes and let the guy pay for it probably most of the time don't make the habit of him paying all the time - its best to keep it in the middle I like your idea of putting it in his jacket

   Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 12:34 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

3. 

   Tammy

   Hello there MidnightBlue,
   you seem ever so lovely and i love the change of Dp, suits you =)
   I dont know but i'd always feel terrible if the guy had to pay everything, sometimes i'd feel i'd want to repay them back somehow becasue it doesnt always have to be their responsibilty to do so, it wouldnt be fair to expect that of them in my opinion.
   Nevertheless, it is traditional and sometimes i'd imagine they guy would rather pay than splitting i guess, as it may feel more normal.
   Anyways Hope i have helped and be sure to keep yabbing =)
   

   Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 12:35 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

4. 

   ZeeZee

   really depends how long your with him, if its long then probs the dude pays

   Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 12:36 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

5. 

   ZOMG

   You are right & I feel the same way. In a modern world where many women want to be independent and prove they can do things on their own that is a way to prove it. Women who think that a man should pay for everything is picking that up from people that get that mindset of those that want to bring back the 40's & 50's.

   Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 12:38 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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   Zeriya

   just let him pay if he wants to lol

   Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 12:42 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

7. 

   sneahhh

   Yeah I think it's fine if he rejects ur offer to pay. :)

   Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 12:46 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

8. 

   Sediment

   If he says not to pay then dont force it? you can pay another time right

   Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 12:49 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

9. 

   Paco

   just say thanks n let him pay midnightblue

   Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 12:52 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

10. 

    Electrica

    Both pay...men are perferred to pay but it's nothing wrong witht the lady paying every now and again>!

    Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 12:58 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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    SW

    I think it should be burden on anyone. Treat him as friend and share the treats on dating.

    Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 01:27 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

12. 

    Fashionista!

    I think it's wrong
    okay if he's did it once you do it next and from there you both pay, its equal and fairness and better that he's not just doing everything you both are.

    Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 01:35 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

13. 

    MissM28

    I agree with you MidnightBlue - women should be able to pay too. A lot of the time however men feel the need to pay but it doesn't make us feel any better about it. The next time you're out, tell him that you want to treat him and he should let you because it will make you happy. Taking it in turns is a good idea or even paying halves :) It's nice to always offer to pay but if he's asked you on the date, and he wants to pay then sometimes let him :)

    Report abuse     Aug 22, 2011 03:41 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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    ZeeH

    LOL. finally I got someone who got the same thinking as me but, only difference is I don't have a bf nor been on a date - but yes, I have the same ideology on this situation. Both should be able to pay. =)

    Report abuse     Aug 23, 2011 01:21 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

15. 

    Wasssel

    if he offers, then let him pay duh!

    Report abuse     Sep 9, 2011 11:40 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

16. 

    Arslan

    sure why not

    Report abuse     Sep 12, 2011 06:53 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

17. 

    MU18

    I'd go halves. i wouldn't like the guy to pay for everything all the time

    Report abuse     Sep 14, 2011 11:27 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

18. 

    YabbingMania

    Well if he's a gentlemen he will refuse your money.

    Report abuse     Oct 4, 2011 05:47 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)