Question:

I need excuses for someone to have to not come to my party tomorrow. Please help?

Asked in Friends  |  234 days ago

I am having my birthday party tomorrow with 3 very close friends. One of them accidentally invited one of my other friends, and now he is coming. I couldn't say he couldn't go because he was right there when he was invited. I don't want him here tomorrow for the following reasons:
He can be very annoying and attention-seeking, like he was at someone else's party.
I am not close to him at all.
It can be very awkward when he's there.
The 3 close friends and I were/are a very close-knit group of friends.
With him there it would be 3 boys and 2 girls (I am a boy) and I just wanted it to be the four of us.

I desperately need excuses to tell him about why he can't go in a very nice way. PLEASE HELP ME.

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  1. ah thats a toughy welcome to the community first secondly tell him we've changed the plan to another day or something and youll let him know

    Report abuse     Sep 30, 2011 01:10 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  2. Say its the girls night out.. you will invite him another time sozzy =P

    Report abuse     Sep 30, 2011 01:11 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  3. You don't have to say nada! get your friend who invited him to tell him that its cancelled. Oh and Happy Birthday if its tomorrow. x

    Report abuse     Sep 30, 2011 01:16 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  4. yup as everyone said ABOVE ^^ saying its cancelled is the best way! gl xx

    Report abuse     Sep 30, 2011 01:22 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  5. why not be straight, he can come only if his on his best behaviour otherwise stay home :D
    welcoem to YABYAB

    Report abuse     Sep 30, 2011 01:34 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  6. "cancelled excuse" works wonders ;)

    Report abuse     Sep 30, 2011 01:42 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  7. Helloo, welcome to the yabyab community,
    I agree with what alll the other yabbers said, the cancelled excuse would work, or even just being straight but in a nice way as lying doesnt ever help anyone. good luck and happy birthday :) x

    Report abuse     Sep 30, 2011 02:55 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  8. Don't lie because it will get you in a bigger mess. Just tell him that he'll be the only guy invited and you want it to be your 3 close friends only. He'll understand if he's really your 'friend' :)

    Report abuse     Sep 30, 2011 04:10 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  9. if you dont like him, no point being fake. just tell him straight

    Report abuse     Sep 30, 2011 05:35 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  10. Get the friend who invited him to uninvite him >

    Report abuse     Oct 1, 2011 09:12 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  11. Just tell him straight... im sure he'll get the message.

    Report abuse     Oct 2, 2011 04:09 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  12. oh that's a hard one. dont know what you could say/do without hurting his feelings

    Report abuse     Oct 5, 2011 11:05 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  13. Just tell him its cancelled and tell your other friends to keep quiet about it and not tell him :)

    Report abuse     Oct 9, 2011 01:20 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  14. just say ur changing the date and will let them know simple

    Report abuse     Oct 12, 2011 06:23 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  15. tell them or at least make it all rescheduled and then keep changing it around till they cant be bothered to come lol

    Report abuse     Oct 26, 2011 04:45 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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