Question:

why does my sister always tries to show me up in front of her friends :(

Asked in Family  |  90 days ago

when her friends come over she obviously puts on make up and dresses up nicely, while im bare faced no make up, with just some comfortable clothes, and i sometimes just pop in for a chat or to tell her something and she gets a bit rude and says oh you look stupid with that on or you look like this and that and compares me to people like ugly betty.. i just ignore it, but why does she be so rude for she is older the me? but when her friends go she's okay.

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  1. That's called being insecure at some point. You're not the only one being put down by your older sister - I get that all the time. Best thing is, put your chin up always and give her a witty reply back in a nice n firm way. simply say: What is it to you? - it's my house as much as yours and therefore I like to be confortable. =)

    Report abuse     Feb 21, 2012 08:55 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  2. Good afternoon

    The bottom line it is your house - you do whatever makes you feel comfatable it's your sisters friends not yours so I don't see why the reason you should start changing your habit of remaining comfatable without make up what are you going to do ask your sister every 5 minutes if her friends are coming around I would have a quiet word with your sister and tell her its unacceptable to abuse your own blood infront of your friends to look bigger - tell her showing respect and love would make her the bigger person instead of what she is doing at present

    Report abuse     Feb 21, 2012 08:53 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  3. who cares do whatever you want to, dont care about what others will say and think. at the end of the day things like these doesnt matter

    Report abuse     Feb 23, 2012 05:20 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  4. you need to do some investigating and gather some dirt on her. find her weak points and see which way you can get her back. believe me if she is a bully then this is the only way. when she has an exciting date or event next time you can make her phone or favorite bra etc to disappear.

    Report abuse     Feb 27, 2012 03:22 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  5. shes trying to impress her friends, and act all tough. When your both alone she obviously has no one to impress.

    Report abuse     Feb 27, 2012 05:02 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

  6. shes trying to impress her friends, and act all tough. When your both alone she obviously has no one to impress.

    Report abuse     Feb 27, 2012 05:02 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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