guys. what would you do if the girl who you got married to, originally said theyre a virgin, but then you have sex with them and their cherry doesnt pop? o_O

21 ANSWERS

1. 

   Wasssel

   sex isnt haram if you marry them first ¬_¬

   Report abuse     Sep 16, 2011 11:50 AM  |   Thumb Up (1)   0 (0)

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   Wasssel

   but immediately theyve broken trust? so its a hard decision. divorce is an option but if you get married and straight away divorce, itd be weird o_O

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   aiasha_M

   bare haraam.

   Report abuse     Sep 16, 2011 11:41 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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   eena meena d...

   i'll shag her again and make the cherry pop hahahaha

   Report abuse     Sep 16, 2011 11:42 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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   ChocButtonBoy

   i heard horse riding or playing too much sports can easily pop it

   Report abuse     Sep 16, 2011 11:43 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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   Wasssel

   proper astagfirullah stuff isnt it aiasha. LOOOOOOOOOOOOL WTH EENA!?

   Report abuse     Sep 16, 2011 11:43 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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   eena meena d...

   LOL what would you do??

   Report abuse     Sep 16, 2011 11:45 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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   Wasssel

   chocbuttonboy: lol thats just an excuse some girls use ¬_¬
   eena: id cry.

   Report abuse     Sep 16, 2011 11:46 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

9. 

   IAmSlacker

   LOL, o,O
   im going with whatever aiasha said xD

   Report abuse     Sep 16, 2011 11:49 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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    Paco

    it would be too late to do something lol

    Report abuse     Sep 16, 2011 11:58 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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    sneahhh

    Lmao Surely she lied to u buh would u care if the girl wasn't virgin?

    Report abuse     Sep 16, 2011 12:14 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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    Wasssel

    yes i would care.

    Report abuse     Sep 16, 2011 12:22 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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    mahmuda

    hmm well it would make you think if she can lie about that then, what else is she hiding..
    and it would be a sticky sitiuation

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    MissM28

    I hope nobody ever does get put into that situation - for her to have done that and then lie as well is a big thing. I can't really answer the question because obviously I'm a girl but the guy should definitely talk to her first and ask her again directly. As ChocButtonBoy said, it is actually proven that things like horse riding and sports can cause it to break. If she admits to it or you still doubt her, then Allah guide you both :|

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    Arslan

    tell her mom on her

    Report abuse     Sep 16, 2011 05:07 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

16. 

    fraazybear

    of course one would care its a big deal

    Report abuse     Sep 20, 2011 07:51 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

17. 

    zed_ay

    Go on The Jeremy Kyle Show

    Report abuse     Oct 2, 2011 09:20 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

18. 

    YabbingMania

    Divorce that Sl*t straight!.

    Report abuse     Oct 3, 2011 04:45 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

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    minnie962

    lolll poor guy

    Report abuse     Oct 12, 2011 12:32 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

20. 

    Nerd

    Hello Wasel!
    You might not believe this like many others but it is a very common misconception that a girls cherry has to pop the very first time.
    Firstly, it doesn't HAVE TO pop the first time she does it. Sometimes it takes a few attemps- Infact, some girls find that it NEVER pops! I won't get into a lot of detail as it won't be appropriate.
    Secondly, just because a girls cherry pops doesn't mean she HAS TO bleed! Some don't bleed at all!
    And thirdly, linking back to my first point, since some girls cherry never really pops (or doesn't pop with a certain partner), it could be that she isn't a virgin but still has a 'like new' cherry (if that makes sense).
    
    So truly speaking, there isn't really a certain way of finding out whether someone is a virgin or not.
    
    I wouldn't base any judgements on that alone. Everyone's body works differently and I think it's ridiculous to accuse a girl of not being a virgin just because she hasn't bled -.-
    Just ask her- I'm sure once you're married, she'll tell you the truth.

    Report abuse     Oct 28, 2011 10:51 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

21. 

    RQueezy

    i personally wouldn't care just as long as she agrees to go hardcore with me....or gets me a girl who's cherry will pop

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