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This is a little Guideline. if anyone has more brilliant ideas you are most welcome to add them below while stating your comment. Thank you.. in advance :D
blood is thicker than water...nothing is more important than family.
Lesson 1. in order to show someone else a mirror (you) should stand in front of that same mirror and think "if i question my sibling" wat if he/she attacks me by saying "look whos talking" so in-order to teach someone else a good lesson make sure you follow your own?? Nd remember its never to late!! To look in to that straight path of yours.
Lesson 2. NEVER do something BAD and expect others to be Good, even in life we do something stupid that we regret on it, the least you can do is Move on Than going back doing the same thing. Learn from your mistake and do tell other’s about the experience so it stops them from doing the same.
Lesson 3. Dont OverPower your sibling cus they will find that annoying, be friendly at an extent where he/she can relate to you and share Their PROBLEMS with you. Always give good advice. This will enable them to relate to you and more often and they will come to you at all time. This is what i call friendly relationship with your siblings. Make sure you LISTEN TO THEM nd not ignore that’ll show that they are IMPORTANT to you.
Lesson 4. If you think by being too much friendly you might loose my ground then TRSUT ME you WONT” they will start RESPECTING you even More and Life will be more easier. Both for you and your Parents.
Lesson 5. If you think that it is your parents JOB to keep you and your siblings straight den dont forget half of our Parents aint Westernised so they may think your doing absolutely fine but, “who sees the fact that wen a daugther gets out of the house and later she reaches to school/college she takes off her scarf. >
Do not sell your soul for something so cheap, as if you did not know the worth of the Hereafter.
Yet > > > > > > > > > > >
We know that death is seeking you at the speed of a blink of an eye, and yet we constantly sin
Last but not the Least > > > > > > > > > >
Seek to gain the never ending knowledge of Al-Islam, for verily it is the only beneficial knowledge for the Hereafter. And with that beneficial knowledge seek to teach everyone around you so your rewards can multiply. Know that the knowledge of this world will only benefit you in this world.
P.s I love y’all
Tags: Top Tips on how to deal with your siblings teenage years
Report abuseAs always, had me reading top to bottom completely hooked. All points were true - we should never be hypocrites and should "practice what [we] preach."
Although you said it's to do with younger siblings, it's definitely generalisable - be good to everyone, kind and respectful and you could just help change someone's life.
Lovely tips ms_soni and you are right - there is nothing more important than family, no matter what your relationship is like with them :)
wow you should have your own book called RULES OF THE TEANNEGERS lol
Once again a wonderful interesting post that can help others immensly.
These tips are so applicable to anyone in life like MissM28 says, it doesnt have to just be sibiling, also when preaching such advice and wisdom it is preferable if the person giving it has done so too, theres nothing good about being hypocritic unless you say it in a way where you offer up your own experience, learn from it and tell others to do them same. That would be real honest and true advice that is more likely to help others. I am the beyong perfect myself, i try to be a pure good hearted person to the best of my ability but never would i ever say that i am. I continue to try to reach that goal where i've put a smile on everyones face and try to help people who need me. Offering my help to anyone regardless whether they need it or not. Again, i TRY, i wouldnt say i am all those things but it is what i am aiming for everyday.
Family is the backbone in our life, without them who are we?
We wouldnt be fed becasue we have those freinds we hang out with, we wouldnt have clothes and wisdom and maturity from hanging outside with other people.
Our family and parents are what make us who we are. Without them we would not be here today, without them i wouldnt have a laptop, or the bed im sitting on or all the material things we take for granted.
We abuse such privelages and the love and care they give are beyond anything anyone else would give you so everyone should think twice before making them their last priority.
I applaud you Miss soni for such useful tips and i agree with each valid point up there. I only hope you are blessed with such love and care as you seem like such a lovely person.
May we all realise and become who we want, a better person both spiritually and Religiously Insh'allah.
Miss_soni
Love your Post and question you make a great statement!
i should of proof read my words, Sorry,,, it was too long for me but hope u guys understand my English lol :)
thank you guys but i missed out on few valid point i will try and repost this, hope you guys dont mind
dont keep nagging them...it just drives them away.....treat them like an adult..not a kid....
nice
You make a great statement
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