I am being made fun of at school and am in a lose-lose situation.

6 ANSWERS

1. 

   Blondie

   Awwww :( Hun you seem like the most lovliest person ever, i feel really annoyed at whoever is being this mean to you, you dont deserve this, i think that you should take him aside one day and confront him, just ask him in a light tone 'just tell me what it is that makes you want to mock me' or something along those lines, say it in a way he doesnt get angry and make sure his friends are'nt there,
   i dont think there is anything wrong with you at all, he is only doing this becasue you are an easy target and it makes him feel better when he gets a lot of laughs.
   Also everytime he does mock you make sure you dont react to him in the slightest, pretend you didnt even realise his existence, dont even flinch at any of his remarks, slowly but surely it will get old for him when he see's that you dont get affected.
   i do hope this stops :
   stay strong and remember that you are better than him. xx

   Report abuse     Feb 8, 2012 04:08 PM  |   Thumb Up (1)   0 (0)

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   miss_soni

   well am glad you elaborated on this. i belive you should go and have a word with your head trust me its probably the best way to take down the geezer trust me

   Report abuse     Feb 17, 2012 03:05 AM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

3. 

   Zain

   Blondie is right, you seem like a very civilised person, you havent fought back with violence nor with swear words which has instantly made you the better person. He is clearly insecure about his own self , he doesnt feel secure enough nor does he feel he has enough self esteem either. He is only doing this to make himself feel better and look good but really hes just an idiot.
   You have to be strong and sort it out with a discussion, find out why he is being mean to you, ask him point blank but avoid an audience so do so discreetly where he cannot make a joke and get a few claps.
   The next best step would be your head of year and i understand why you wouldnt want to but bullying should stop and this guy needs to be put in his place, at least ask for advice from the teachers.
   good luck kiddo :)

   Report abuse     Feb 8, 2012 04:22 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

4. 

   AriannaJacobs

   i echo what the others have said, ignore this guy who clearly has no life, focus yourself on the things that matter, your health, education, family and true real friends, ignore his entire existence and make youreself happy and live your days happily, dont let him bring you down. Gl x

   Report abuse     Feb 8, 2012 04:25 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

5. 

   Paco

   nice to see you back peprilen, if i may ask are you a guy or a girl
   
   click "answer now" you can reply to this post.

   Report abuse     Feb 8, 2012 04:28 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)

6. 

   Perfectionist

   Good evening peprilen
   
   you are in the right place - were glad to have you back just clicked your profile you were one of the early members that have now come back let me assure you YabYab seems to have got a lot larger since you joined be sure to let your friends know to sign up etc
   
   as for your question - this is a test I don't know if you believe in a god or not but to me this is a test by god you seem like your highly intelligent for a GCSE child that is speaking in a mature manner the way you are I give props to you and whoever has brought you up they must be as super as you
   
   let's nickname this person as the bully - remember if you get rid of one bully another one will follow yes your head teacher and normal teachers say tell them instead of taking the matters into your own hands but hey peprilen the guy has mocked you made you look stupid infront of people yes it hurts your only in the young stages as you grow older you will learn not to give a damn but I know exactly how you feel
   
   there's 2 options with this bully.
   
   Option 1) tha brave option - ask yourself what is the most this person can do play with words the only reason why he gets to you is because his little people decide to laugh and cheer him on correct? so when they laugh it hurts you even more? yes i've been there and done that
   next time he attacks you with such words - look into his eyes and tell him listen you don't scare me tell him he has 2 options either 1) you start behaving properly or 2) im going to report you to the head teacher and I will make sure you get thrown out
   
   Option 2) the obvious option the smart option but I still wouldn't go for this option personally why because you need that good feeling inside - will you feel good when they throw him out of school knowing that you told the teacher wouldn't you feel a lot better if you sorted him out by your own very self just step up a little bit peprilen I know it's not easy but it needs to be done believe in yourself
   
   don't give up peprilen and never I repeat never put yourself down because of such losers - why should they get the laugh and you get the sorrow
   
   for all I know your going to be in a fancy office in years to come opening up that wine and his going to be the guy wiping your toilet seat in that office - let him laugh it out now you just focus on the bigger picture I'm older than you are and those bullies you talk about I see my own everyday they walk past at me looking at me wear my suit I smile back at them there faces change colour because they know all along they were a worthless piece of poop
   
   I really hope you are going to fire back at him if not do it in the discreet manner and tell the teacher let them sort it out even if they give him a warning at least he knows you mean business and not to mess with you in the future

   Report abuse     Feb 8, 2012 04:39 PM  |   Thumb Up (0)   0 (0)